HELP MEET MY HELP MATE
By: Ebed-Melek Yahshua
supahebro@yahoo.comJust for the record not everyone has adopted this new millennium idea of mating. I was both intrigued and impressed with the very insightful dissertation shared with me regarding our understanding of help meet, often referred to, or substituted as help mate. This response is on the discussion of a true help meet. Let me know your thoughts after reading. - MyraWallace
As a solution to that problem, YAH said "therefore I will make a help meet for him...". Notice the Creator never called this creation YSHAH (Woman). As in the case of all other creatures, ADAM gave this new creature both a name as a species (or in this case gender), which, is YSHAH (meaning "out of MAN") and also gave her a personal name, CHAWAH (mother of all living) that is an act of authority (more on this later).
Many mistakenly package "help meet" as one term. Help in this case is to be understood as the personified noun "HELPER". In Hebrew, the word EZER is the feminine form for help or helper, and means to be an assistant or aid. K'NEGDO, the Hebrew term for "meet" is a bit tricky. It literally means "in opposition" coming from a root meaning "to stand over against". This should be carefully understood in a broad literal sense as this can also be used in a negative sense as in an adversary or foe. In this case it is to be taken in the sense of the partnering of opposites as in a plug to a socket or a nut to a bolt, etc. In other words things that are physically and / or functionally opposite, which are understood to be to be "mates" for the purpose of working together. Therefore meet in this case is an adjective, which means APPROPRIATE or FITTING and would be better understood as a conjugate form of the word "MATE". This alludes to a customization of the female to the needs of a particular male. This is why both the Creator and the earthly guardians of both young men and women should be involved in the mating process. In fact it was very commonplace in our culture for a Man to virtually adopt a young girl for his son so that she may be raised in a customized fashion as a bride for his son. (An entire lesson can be done here, but I won't, lol!). Hence the phrase "help meet" should be read in this sense: "...therefore I will make for him a help(er) which will be meet (meaning appropriate or fitting) for him. With this understanding, you are left with something akin to a personal assistant role, though with a much more profound emotional, physical and spiritual connection (i.e. LOVE).
This is a very important discussion because in this time the head has become the tail. Most women today think in terms of needing a man to help THEM. This is because of the backward and satanic nature of today's mating system where men impregnate women and produce offspring first, then after seeing that it is not good to raise children alone, the woman prays for a good man to "help" them with the kids, bills, etc.
My advice to a woman: When praying for a husband, understand what you're asking for. You're basically asking to become subject in every way (if it is to be a marriage according to scripture) to a man who will be lord over you. Are you ready for that? This should also make you think long and hard about whom and what kind of man will take this position in your life. This is not a light thing, which is why this decision should be made involving guidance from individuals without the cloud of infatuation such as the guardians of the bride and groom and ultimately the Creator. This will ensure that you are given to a YAH fearing, Holy and just man, who deals gently with the weaker sex yet is not afraid to take charge as he should.
Brothers should also notice that the HOLY FATHER was able to solve the above problem (man being alone) by taking ONE rib to make ONE yshah! So be careful not to use your own inadequacy to justify your desire for multiple wives. Also understand that this "rib" represents the protector of your vital internal "instruments". Be careful with whom you choose to fill this role. A contentious and rebellious wife is like hiring your enemy to guard your treasure. They will bring you to ruin!
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