BCF • Let Love In! By Margo Hudson

Let Love In!
By Margo Hudson
http://latalklive.com/new/destination-love-life-with-margo

“Open your Hearts and Minds, Free yourselves… Create space that Allows Love to Flow!”
-Margo Hudson

We’ve all been there at some time or another. We crave love! After all, we are beautifully human and are all made better, in the magnificent presence of love. Whether you crave the love of the one you’ve yet to meet or maybe even with the one you’re with right now, or possibly even through your work. I have a few questions to get yu started on this fruitful journey to “Let Love In” to your life! Do you feel worthy of being loved? Do you believe you can experience love with someone after all of the horrible things you‘ve experienced? Have you given up on love? Perhaps there are things in your environment, both internally and externally, that are creating blocks that hold you back from experiencing the love you desire. You could be blocking love from your life without even knowing it!

Internal Love Blockers
Your internal environment comes first and often requires the most work. Internal love blockers are very tricky, because it’s easy to make excuses for your own self sabotaging behaviors, or even conveniently justify your actions so that you never have to actually be responsible in working through your real issues. For many, experiencing profoundly negative experiences in the love department has had traumatizing effects on their psychological well-being. You might even call it a form of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. It’s easy to become defensive after such experiences, even to the point of convincing yourself that love doesn’t exist, or that it’s unobtainable, or it always comes with pain… These familiar mantras often become self-fulfilling prophecies, especially for those faithful subscribers to the belief that “There aren’t any good ones left”, “They all cheat.” You end up running from love before it ever gets the chance to greet you!

For example, a negative disposition, picking fights with your mate, humiliating or rudely rejecting people interested in you, or the inability to open up and share yourself or communicate, are all cheap protection tactics motivated by fear and used in an attempt to protect yourself from further harm. This may work for a while, and in some cases it may even serve you well… but ultimately this reactive behavior will push love away from you. So this cycle must be broken and eliminated, if true love is ever to be realized. Learning to love and accept yourself is part of the process, along with taking better care of your body with the things you feed it and rejuvenate it.~

The Love Cannot Be Let In until you clear a path! A path free of garbage. Healing yourself starts with awareness of your problem, then doing something about what you face and uncover. Get help if you need to. In time you‘ll discover that love is not attracted to the negative protective shell you wear, nor can love grow from this dark place. Love is a human need, and we weren’t created to be alone. I have news for you… you are directly contributing to your outcomes in love far more than you know, and it’s time to clean it up so that the right kinds of love can come into your life and have a more inviting environment in which to grow.~

External Love Blockers
Your external environment is an outgrowth of whatever’s going on inside you. This will work against you over time. Take time and observe your environment. Are the things or people around you helping you move forward, or are they holding you back? Do you hold on to pictures of an old boyfriend, or old clothes? Lots of people complain about love, blaming love, other people or situations for any negative outcomes. Instead, take a close look at what you are thinking, doing or not doing that may be blocking you from receiving love. It seems that people forget or simply do not know that in order for a good mate for you to come in, you must create the loving space. Open your hearts and minds, Free yourselves… Create space that allows Love to Flow!

Below are a few important things to consider when cleansing yourself and your life of cluttered or stagnant energy. Clear the pathway for LOVE!~

Take A Look Inside
Identify the source of your pain and come to terms with it. Get professional help if needed. Journaling your thoughts into a private book can also be very freeing and can provide you an avenue of peace through acceptance. Accepting things for what they are and not being afraid to face them because facing them and dealing with them lessens their power and control over you.

Trade In Your Old Beliefs
Your beliefs about love create your experiences of love. So get rid of those old negative mantras that only serve to keep you stuck in fear, alone, and unhappy. Stop associating love with pain, or you’ll keep attracting painful relationships.

Your Home Is Calling
Things have energy, and when you clear the unnecessary things from your home, you can began to Let Love In, creating breathing space for a partner to actually join you.If you look around your home I’m sure you’ll find things you don’t use and should get rid of, especially those thing you’ll “Use one day”…No you won’t. Clear it out! Clearing the energy field of your resting place of rejuvenation, your home, helps you sleep better and think more clearly as well. The love and care you put into cleaning your space is rejuvenating to the spirit and attracts love.

Your Closet Is Talking
Your clothing says something about you. If you are a woman and all of your clothing looks like you are going to the club or getting on a stripper pole, let’s be honest. Know that you’ll attract a certain kind of man- a man that doesn’t have love on his mind! The downside is you’ll continue attracting this kind of guy until you cover it up a little bit and leave at least a little bit to the imagination. If you dress slouchy and aren‘t taking care of yourself lately, beware of the kind of man who‘s attracted to that nonsense. They may be looking for a woman with low self-esteem to manipulate or abuse in some way. If you’re a man wearing clothes that are too small or too big, or clothing that’s not a good complement to your natural frame or build, with dirty shoes, women may subconsciously read that your unclean, have low self-esteem, poor judgment or character, or that you wouldn’t make a good provider to settle down with. Biologically most women are wired to choose a man a strong and competent enough to support and provide for their family.

Overall Letting Love In requires your willingness to get out of your comfort zone and grow a little bit! There are great rewards to be reaped from clearing the cluttered energy from your mind and life, and one of them is simply feeling lighter and happier… organic peace of mind, which ultimately attracts love!

Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this article! May every article bring more love and light into your lives and the people’s lives around you. Until next time, Blessings~

Tune-in to my new radio/TV show DESTINATION LOVE LIFE™ with Margo Hudson! Mondays 10am-12n PST @ LaTalkLive.com. See past shows!




	Let Love In! By Margo Hudson http://latalklive.com/new/destination-love-life-with-margo “Open your Hearts and Minds, Free yourselves… Create space that Allows Love to Flow!” -Margo Hudson We’ve all been there at some time or another. We crave love! After all, we are beautifully human and are all made better, in the magnificent presence of love. Whether you crave the love of the one you’ve yet to meet or maybe even with the one you’re with right now, or possibly even through your work. I have a few questions to get yu started on this fruitful journey to “Let Love In” to your life! Do you feel worthy of being loved? Do you believe you can experience love with someone after all of the horrible things you‘ve experienced? Have you given up on love? Perhaps there are things in your environment, both internally and externally, that are creating blocks that hold you back from experiencing the love you desire. You could be blocking love from your life without even knowing it! Internal Love Blockers Your internal environment comes first and often requires the most work. Internal love blockers are very tricky, because it’s easy to make excuses for your own self sabotaging behaviors, or even conveniently justify your actions so that you never have to actually be responsible in working through your real issues. For many, experiencing profoundly negative experiences in the love department has had traumatizing effects on their psychological well-being. You might even call it a form of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. It’s easy to become defensive after such experiences, even to the point of convincing yourself that love doesn’t exist, or that it’s unobtainable, or it always comes with pain… These familiar mantras often become self-fulfilling prophecies, especially for those faithful subscribers to the belief that “There aren’t any good ones left”, “They all cheat.” You end up running from love before it ever gets the chance to greet you! For example, a negative disposition, picking fights with your mate, humiliating or rudely rejecting people interested in you, or the inability to open up and share yourself or communicate, are all cheap protection tactics motivated by fear and used in an attempt to protect yourself from further harm. This may work for a while, and in some cases it may even serve you well… but ultimately this reactive behavior will push love away from you. So this cycle must be broken and eliminated, if true love is ever to be realized. Learning to love and accept yourself is part of the process, along with taking better care of your body with the things you feed it and rejuvenate it.~ The Love Cannot Be Let In until you clear a path! A path free of garbage. Healing yourself starts with awareness of your problem, then doing something about what you face and uncover. Get help if you need to. In time you‘ll discover that love is not attracted to the negative protective shell you wear, nor can love grow from this dark place. Love is a human need, and we weren’t created to be alone. I have news for you… you are directly contributing to your outcomes in love far more than you know, and it’s time to clean it up so that the right kinds of love can come into your life and have a more inviting environment in which to grow.~ External Love Blockers Your external environment is an outgrowth of whatever’s going on inside you. This will work against you over time. Take time and observe your environment. Are the things or people around you helping you move forward, or are they holding you back? Do you hold on to pictures of an old boyfriend, or old clothes? Lots of people complain about love, blaming love, other people or situations for any negative outcomes. Instead, take a close look at what you are thinking, doing or not doing that may be blocking you from receiving love. It seems that people forget or simply do not know that in order for a good mate for you to come in, you must create the loving space. Open your hearts and minds, Free yourselves… Create space that allows Love to Flow! Below are a few important things to consider when cleansing yourself and your life of cluttered or stagnant energy. Clear the pathway for LOVE!~ Take A Look Inside Identify the source of your pain and come to terms with it. Get professional help if needed. Journaling your thoughts into a private book can also be very freeing and can provide you an avenue of peace through acceptance. Accepting things for what they are and not being afraid to face them because facing them and dealing with them lessens their power and control over you. Trade In Your Old Beliefs Your beliefs about love create your experiences of love. So get rid of those old negative mantras that only serve to keep you stuck in fear, alone, and unhappy. Stop associating love with pain, or you’ll keep attracting painful relationships. Your Home Is Calling Things have energy, and when you clear the unnecessary things from your home, you can began to Let Love In, creating breathing space for a partner to actually join you.If you look around your home I’m sure you’ll find things you don’t use and should get rid of, especially those thing you’ll “Use one day”…No you won’t. Clear it out! Clearing the energy field of your resting place of rejuvenation, your home, helps you sleep better and think more clearly as well. The love and care you put into cleaning your space is rejuvenating to the spirit and attracts love. Your Closet Is Talking Your clothing says something about you. If you are a woman and all of your clothing looks like you are going to the club or getting on a stripper pole, let’s be honest. Know that you’ll attract a certain kind of man- a man that doesn’t have love on his mind! The downside is you’ll continue attracting this kind of guy until you cover it up a little bit and leave at least a little bit to the imagination. If you dress slouchy and aren‘t taking care of yourself lately, beware of the kind of man who‘s attracted to that nonsense. They may be looking for a woman with low self-esteem to manipulate or abuse in some way. If you’re a man wearing clothes that are too small or too big, or clothing that’s not a good complement to your natural frame or build, with dirty shoes, women may subconsciously read that your unclean, have low self-esteem, poor judgment or character, or that you wouldn’t make a good provider to settle down with. Biologically most women are wired to choose a man a strong and competent enough to support and provide for their family. Overall Letting Love In requires your willingness to get out of your comfort zone and grow a little bit! There are great rewards to be reaped from clearing the cluttered energy from your mind and life, and one of them is simply feeling lighter and happier… organic peace of mind, which ultimately attracts love! Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this article! May every article bring more love and light into your lives and the people’s lives around you. Until next time, Blessings~ Tune-in to my new radio/TV show DESTINATION LOVE LIFE™ with Margo Hudson! Mondays 10am-12n PST @ LaTalkLive.com. See past shows!
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